Real Love vs "the Ideal" Blog 5

When two people meet for the 1st time nobody really comes as themselves. They change there ways to be mannerism , they change their clothes and their style to suit the other person ways and habits . This is typical for an ideal relationship, Afraid of what the other people might think and not wanting to leave the wrong impression.after a while when the ideal becomes a reality what happens?
I once watch a movie name along came Polly it about a man name Reuben who marry his "perfect" lady Lisa   and she became his wife, only to fine out on their honeymoon she was cheating with the scuba instructor Claude. this is a perfect example of a ideal relationship Lisa was the sweetest , kindness and in love until the honeymoon came, The real love kick in and she realize that's was just an idea of a perfect relationship.
Many people believe that the ideal relationship will be the perfect way of living but it proven not to be . later on the person you met earlier wont be the person a couple years later .

IS MY CAREER REALLY THE RIGHT ONE ?

Today in class we took a personality test although my personality test showed that my major match my results i was shock to fine out that my professor pro tray it with a different career i can understand why she thought fashion was my thing i mean i do love clothes and making statement but not in that way i like to lead others into making a statement for them selves that's why i choose to be a therapist because not only is it making a statement but it making a statement which include other ways beside using your mouth actions.

Happinessand work

past society believe that work was created for mankind himself and that work was meant to be one of the most important parts of the day , according to many family the work you do would reflect on how u were  treated , eat and even live . In recent years it still reflects on how may are treated if many Americans choose to flip burgers instead of a typical nurse how would they life be affect they home , car, they way they eat and live . but here's the question if you don't like nursing whats in  it for you . how do you relate happiness to a career you rather not have choose but because of society money and a career that provides it make you an overall happier person.
                    Tony Robbins also explain the spirit we need it to help us explore the opportunity and look beyond ourselves when seeking our career and with career fine a long term happiness. i highly agree with ted most people just choose a career for money and not for the long term happiness they are many people who are not happier with the career there career but if you u a janitor no one respect for you for what you do . or  the overall respect you get is low.

Is happiness in education blog 3

I endure the unsuccessful relationships with reading to greater my experience with school and learning hand's on. The influence other's had on me when I went to school was a huge impact on the way i view school. It show me different points of view of others and that school was not meant to be enjoy. While reading I found that I would often drift off. Till I learn that hand's on would be the perfect style of learning for me .students believe that education is just a pathway to money or the only reason they should attend school is because they parents suggested it. So are they any true meaning of happiness in education? Students have been lead to believe that it’s something to dislike or not want to do. Why can’t some students enjoy education for it values.

The issue of school has always been one of the major issues in life. Mark Van Dorean states that “The Drowning model shows: the desire to free ourselves of pain can be a strong motivator and that, once freed, we can easily mistake our relief for happiness.(83) People often learn how to adjust themselves to not enjoy school. Many people thoughts and judgment of school are clouded by negativetavie. However when we accomplish many events we are overjoyed. The other model Mark Van Dorean states is " The loving making model: it offers a different way of thinking about learning, one that can encompass both present and future benefit. Others believe as i agree that if you endure the present you'll enjoy the future. so is school really happiness ? or just a fairy tale to happiness.

Throughout my life I have always learn that school wasn’t something I was suppose to enjoy but something I have to endure to move further in life. While attend school during my primary school days I began to hate school more and more , asking myself why do I have to wake up , why do I have to do work , why, why, why I was basically taught by others that it was the way I was suppose to act when it came to school. In addition Daniel Goleman states "Psychologists agree that IQ contributes only about 20 percent of the factors that determine success" (85) so why was I to believe what everyone else thought was right, it was up to me to have opinions about education.

As I got older and older I realize I might as well make the best of it since I’m going to attend it for the most part of my life. Also everything I wanted to be was involving school for some reason, that’s when the friends with different mentalities about school held conversations with me. I later realize that if I wanted to enjoy school I would have to adjust to a different mentality about school .since I was earlier taught that school was just a stepping stone in life. I was getting grades that was pretty good for an high school student but when I got a A+ I was over joy , Of course it was in clinical class where I got to be hands on. I taught to myself that maybe a hands on job was for me instead of the typical desk job where I didn’t enjoy sitting at all. In fact it taught me that sitting and learning wasn’t for me. Is happiness in education I taught? It was happiness when A is being provided or when children accomplish something.

As a college in sophomore I have learn how to adjust to have happiness in education. Yes after many years of school I have endure many reasons why not to enjoy school. But looking back at the cons of why I didn’t have happiness it was an upfront explanation. But I’m pretty much 99.9 % sure that happiness can be found as long as you’re doing it for the right reasons. I found that hand-on education was what I enjoy hopefully others can look deeper into the concept of education other than just books and homework. Like Mark Van Dorean stated " In school, children should be encouraged to peruse the paths that afford them pleasure and meaning." (85) If every child enjoyed education they would be much more interest in their school and more likely to pass.

Is Happiness in education ? Really

Is Happiness in education? We may never know many students believe that education is just a pathway to money or the only reason they should attend school is because they parents suggested it. So are they any true meaning of happiness in education?  Students have been lead to believe that it’s something to dislike or not want to do. Why can’t some students enjoy education for it values.

                Throughout my life I have always learn that school wasn’t something I was suppose to enjoy but something I have to endure to move further in life. While attend school during my primary school days I began to hate school more and more , asking myself why do I have to wake up , why do I have to do work , why, why, why  I was basically taught by others that it was the way I was suppose to act when it came to school. In addition Daniel Goleman states “Psychologists agree that IQ contributes only about 20 percent of the factors that determine success” (85) so why was I to believe what everyone else thought was right, it was up to me to have opinions about education.

                As I got older and older I realize I might as well make the best of it since I’m going to attend it for the most part of my life. Also everything I wanted to be was involving school for some reason, that’s when the friends with different mentalities about school held conversations with me. I later realize that if I wanted to enjoy school I would have to adjust to a different mentality about school .since I was earlier taught that school was just a stepping stone in life. I was getting grades that was pretty good for an high school student but when I got a A+ I was over joy , Of course it was in clinical class where I got to be hands on. I taught to myself that maybe a hands on job was for me instead of the typical desk job where I didn’t enjoy sitting at all. In fact it taught me that sitting and learning wasn’t for me. Is happiness in education I taught? It was happiness when A is being provided or when children accomplish something.

                As a college in sophomore I have learn how to adjust to have happiness in education. Yes after many years of school I have endure many reasons why not to enjoy school. But looking back at the cons of why I didn’t have happiness it was an upfront explanation. But I’m pretty much 99.9 % sure that happiness can be found as long as you’re doing it for the right reasons. I found that hand-on education was what I enjoy hopefully others can look deeper into the concept of education other than just books and homework.